Sunny Samaritan

Houston has been drenched by an almost constant downpour of rain everyday for almost a week.  Today’s no different.

It’s been a big downer, literally and figuratively.  This afternoon, however, I was quite surprised to get a little ray of sunshine as the felines and canines poured to the ground from above.

My ray came in the form of a well-dressed older woman walking into Barnes & Noble as I walked out. The set-up began thirty minutes earlier when I made the decision to leave my umbrella, jacket, and rain-boots behind as I made a quick stop to browse the shelves and grab some coffee.  The rain picked up significantly on the way out, and I hesitated with whether or not to step into the storm with my new boots on.  I looked at my car, turned back to the store, back to the car, and regretted my unpreparedness with each glance.  I knew it was forecasted to be stormin’-norman all afternoon and night but thought I’d get out in time.  Unfortunately, I heavily underestimated how long my “quick” stop would take.  The lady noticed my dilemma and offered me her umbrella.

I declined and explained to her that my car was pretty close.

“Are you sure?”, she asked.  “You could take it and then drive back up to hand it back.”

“Oh, no.  That’s okay, really.  My car is pretty close.  Thank you though.”

I grabbed the loose fabric of my dress, clutched my caramel macchiato, and ran 5 seconds until I reached the shelter of my car.  Once inside the Kia and out of the storm I smiled at how nice her offer was.  She was willing to hand over her umbrella to a complete stranger and wait outside just to save me (and my “Fancy-Friday”-outfit) from getting drenched.  Sometimes I lose faith in the goodness of people and lack of courtesy that happens so often in crowded cities, but not today.  Thank you to her, to her offer, but most of all, thank you for being a kind, considerate, and lovely Houstonian.

Number 12 in 12.0

I thought of one more relevant item left off of my Jessica 12.0 upgrade list: Dress well (or at least better). Make an effort. Look great. Feel awesome.

Nine West had a slogan in one of their many promotional emails encouraging me to “resolve to be sexy” and buy one of their newest heels.  I don’t think that’s quite the resolution/upgrade I’m going for.  However, heels that pretty always put a smile on my face falling right in line with looking great and feeling awesome.

On that note, yesterday turned into a two-fer.  Not only did I attend an afternoon networking/information event for graduate school, but I also had to dress in something other than scrubs, soccer shorts, or a t-shirt.  I chose a tailored jacket, sensible heels, and a flowy dress that had me doing Marylin Monroe impressions all. day. long.  Even though there was ample opportunity to change into a more comfortable outfit I opted to stay slightly overdressed for shopping, stopping off at Starbucks, filling up my tank, and meeting a friend for lunch.  It wasn’t the most practical choice of attire but still felt pretty good to dress up…minus the occasional flashing and sore feet.

Jessica 12.0

It’s been almost three years since I composed a list of what I wanted to accomplish in the coming year.  The first and only “Jessica 2.0″ and its beta version followed an upgrade/software approach to my ideas for coping in more productive ways.  I’d like to keep that productive thread running through this post and hopefully in “software” updates for years to come.  Each of the items for this year’s version are condensed into short phrases with the intentions of a more detailed description in a dedicated post to follow later.  Here they are in no particular order:

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